When you are in a relationship there are certain ‘rules’ you have to follow, right?

I have the idea that when you are in a relationship you have a compromise with that person. This compromise won’t let you do certain things you’d do as a single person.. for example:

• Sexting 
• Hooking up with random strangers
• Sending/receiving nudes
• Talking dirty to random dudes
• Flirting with guys on the Internet

And so on. Am I right? Because, you see, I don’t think it’s okay to do it. When I’m in a relationship all my sex life evolves around my partner. Even the most little things. And I don’t think it’s correct if my boyfriend does any of the above.

Yesterday we had a talk and he told me: “If one day I ran into you fucking with some other dude, I wouldn’t say a thing because I know how much you love me. I won’t doubt of your love, ever.” Well, what a nice thing to say. Just because you -love- someone makes it okay to do sexual things with others because you don’t love them? No. When you love someone you just don’t feel the urge to do that kind of things with anybody else. At least that’s how I see it.

Maybe I’m wrong, I don’t know. Maybe my ideas are dusty and I think like an old man, but that’s how I see it. Monogamic couples are supposed to follow certain rules, and I really do believe that I’m not completely wrong. If I ask my partner to do so (to follow these rules) am I being too bossy or demanding?

What do you think? Am I right or wrong? And why? If your answer is too long you can always write me in my inbox.